by Mary Beth Franzen
Here we go again. One would think I would be used to this by now, but I guess I’m not. The current “career consultant” for my daughter, Rebecca, isn’t going to work out. Time to go back up the chain of command and re-think this process…again. More red tape, more time wasted, more waiting for other people to decide what’s best for my daughter and how they’re going to handle a mom that won’t settle. Excuse me if I sound exasperated, but maybe some background information will help you to see why I feel this way.
Becca is 22 years old and is looking for competitive employment. As most people are aware, the current job market in the United States isn’t that great, especially if you have Down syndrome or some other label. For the past three years Becca has been working with our state’s Vocational Rehabilitation office in conjunction with a couple of different local agencies to try to secure employment. We’ve spent a lot of time and effort on this. You might wonder, “What has happened as a result of all of those extra meetings, the time spent in job-site assessments, practicing how to answer interview questions, sitting in a library watching the consultant type for her, not much time spent actually applying for anything, and four different career consultants over the past three years?” Well, it’s pretty disappointing: several job applications submitted, one phone interview, one call to set up an interview which got cancelled when they found out she had a disability and a two-month stint at Papa John’s in a “carved-out” position. Hmmm…kind of makes you wonder if it’s really worth all of that time.
Oftentimes, someone that is hired for a job is presumed competent unless they prove themselves not to be. If you have a disability, employers tend to presume you are NOT competent unless you prove that you are. If you need a little support to be successful, they don’t necessarily want to give it to you. If you need a little more time to get the hang of things, they don’t always want to give that to you, either. Now, I know that my daughter is not the best self-advocate and needs help in some areas, but she is quite competent. Rebecca has had several jobs, internships and volunteer positions where she has had success that could translate to the “real world.” Here are a few snippets from her resume:
- Office Assistant (paid) for over 2 years part-time in a small office, filing customer records, completing form letters, and faxing time sensitive information.
- Kitchen Assistant (intern) at a local restaurant doing food prep for lunch and dinner, ran a commercial dishwasher, and cleaned the kitchen and appliances. (plus she cooks gluten-free from scratch at home)
- Screenprinting Assistant (paid) printing t-shirts for sports teams and schools.
- Activities Department (volunteer) at a nursing home, helped transport residents to various parts of the building. (She also entertained them with her piano playing.)
- She volunteered for a pro-life organization, organizing donations of baby supplies to distribute to mothers in need.
- Library (volunteer) at a local elementary school.
- Hospital (volunteer) 1-2 times per week in the Central Distribution department, where she selects items to fill supply orders for hospital floors and departments.
All of the above are places that I searched out, and I was the one who made the connections with people who were willing to give Becca a chance. As I look at this list, I see that I have been much more productive than the so-called professionals. Granted, I haven’t found her full-time employment, and not all of the experiences were used to their greatest potential; but I have found a lot of varied opportunities for her to gain real-world experience. That’s more than the professionals have done.
What I have failed to mention is that I probably already have the answer under my own roof. A small, home-based business created for Becca a couple of years ago:
PSB Cubed – Photo Scanning Business by Becca www.psbcubed.com
Because she is quiet, needs to keep busy, and is a bit of an introvert, Ellen Doman and I always felt that it would be good to get her working out of the house more. We still do, but maybe the job is going to be done from home, and “out of the house stuff” can be volunteering and social events.
With her own business she has learned quite a lot of new skills. Add these bullet points to her resume:
- Operates high-speed scanner to digitize photos, slides and documents and transfer to DVD
- Transfers most size camcorder and VHS tapes to DVD
- Creates custom slideshows for birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, etc.
- Creates language photo cards, words cards, and other custom-cards for NACD families
- Utilizes Microsoft Excel to store customer information
- Generates invoices on PayPal
- Prepares orders for shipment (packaging and postage calculation)
- Completes bank transactions and is learning small-business bookkeeping
She continues to learn about how to run a business, and up to this point it has been pretty small and somewhat inconsistent. It seems her mother (me!) has been a bit distracted trying to find employment in the “real world.” J However, maybe it’s time to really RUN with this business. I’m not sure what I’m waiting for…the next unproductive career consultant? …the next boring meeting? …the next job assessment?…the next person to limit Rebecca’s abilities? I think not. The waiting is over. I already have the best answer for her right now, a business tailored to Becca’s strengths with plenty of room for her to continue to learn, grow and expand her skills…and it’s PSB Cubed!
As NACD has reminded all of us parents, we really are the experts of our children.
As a way to give back to NACD for the help this organization has given to our family for 10 years, Becca began a new branch within her company, called “Program Support Services.” (Thank you & credit to fellow NACD mom Jane Smith for this name!) For the cost of materials and shipping, Becca will create any type of flashcard that you need for your child’s program. She has some listed on her website that she has already done for other families, but she is happy to custom-create anything you need for your child’s TDI. (http://www.psbcubed.com/program-support-services.html)
Please visit her website at www.psbcubed.com to see all of the services she can provide. You can also find her on Facebook and “Like” her business. We appreciate your support!
photo credit: Ali Brassel Photography